Reminiscing on acute and chronic events in children with cancer and their parents: An exploratory study

Background: Children with cancer live through intense emotional experiences that call for coping with stressful events. The narration of these events allows them to construct a detailed memory system, fostering the elaboration and attribution of meaning to the disease experience. In particular, shared memory between the parent and the child about past events (i.e., reminiscing) helps children to deal with negative emotional experiences, encouraging emotional regulation and adaptive coping strategies. The present study aims to investigate reminiscing in parent–child with cancer dyads, focusing on parents' reminiscing habits, parents' reminiscing style about acute and chronic events, and children's well‐being, assessed with respect to emotional regulation and coping skills. Method: Fifteen children from ages 4 to 8 years admitted to a paediatric haematology and oncology ward of an Italian hospital, and their parents were engaged in a reminiscing conversation about acute and chronic events related to disease. Moreover, some questionnaires have been proposed to evaluate parents' reminiscing habits and children's emotional regulation and coping skills. Descriptive and quantitative analyses were conducted. Results: The data showed that parents frequently practise reminiscing in everyday life, focusing on directive and socioemotional functions. In reminiscing conversations about acute and chronic events concerning their child's illness, they use an elaborative reminiscing style and an emotional reminiscing style mainly concerning chronic events. A positive correlation between this reminiscing style and children's adaptive coping strategies was found mainly in acute events. A negative correlation emerged between parents' emotional terms (emotional reminiscing) and children's difficulties in emotional regulation. Conclusion: This study underlines the benefits of elaborative and emotional reminiscing conversation, in order to help children with cancer and their families to cope with acute and chronic stressful events. Reminiscing can be a useful methodology for health professionals with a view to collecting information on patients' memories of illness.